Friday, February 23, 2007

Unconditional Love of Self


This is the picture my adopted parents saw when looking through the profiles of kids available for adoption. This picture was taken in 1983 when I was ten years old. The road to recovery from childhood abuse, neglect, repeated sexual assault, and domestic violence is long and often leaves us struggling with discipline, fear, guilt and shame. I am in the process of lifetime physical, emotional, and spiritual recovery from the pains I endured throughout my youth.I have been able to challenge myself throughout a large part of my recovery process.

Throughout the years, I have shared with others how I manage to be alive and, most recently, how I live a more thriving life. Through deep discussion with men and women who have suffered abuse similar to what I have endured, I have discovered a consistent message that has helped each of them.

Unconditional love of self.

When I explain how to implement this process, those who do, reap it’s rewards and witness positive changes in their lives. When I speak it is to share a holistic approach to emotional wellness. I’ve spent thousands of hours talking to suffering survivors online and on the phone at all hours of the night, and even in grocery store lines, sharing this message that has consistently been successful. The biggest result has been in myself!

I thought about how much easier it would be to speak to all these people in one big room.
How many more people I could reach! How many more adoptive parents, therapists and school authorities! Maybe I could even get some more sleep! I plan to help people seek support by all means necessary, starting from within themselves. My books not only unfold my recovery process, but they also attest to the fact that I can indeed relate to the victim, the survivor, and the thriver. Through my own experiences and recovery, I can share with others how to love themselves unconditionally and how to enjoy a healthier, more prosperous life! My seminar outlines this process for everyone:

* Identifying your SOUL and it’s over all function.


* Identifying the fractions of your soul.


* Identifying the fractures of your soul.


* Identifying the pros and cons, AKA: the positive and negative conditioning of your soul.

* Identifying your most common self abuses.


* Creating a plan of action to recover from victim conditioning.

* Identifying the Condition Pairing Program. (Pairing up
positives against negatives to cancel out the negative.)

* Learning to extract positive lessons from negative experiences.

* Learning to depend on the positive to generate more positive.

* Applying the new positives to the old to achieve growth!

Visit my web site at
www.kekoonpublishing.com for more information about the "Love They Self" Recovery Tour.

Copyright 2006-2007 Ms. Rachel E. Milano

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